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Post by flower on Mar 25, 2009 17:30:18 GMT -5
I had an idea that, to spice up life on this site a little, we could start an advice column board! (but of course, this is up to the mostly inactive admins) In any case, I'd like to start, and replies to my post, of course, are very welcome. Dear ITM readers/members,
I know a guy that I've really liked for two years now.... let's call him Luke (just cause I like that name) Well recently I found out that he likes me back, and this news was pure bliss because I'd hoped that we could advance in our friendship and perhaps start dating. Naturally, I flirted with him and so did he. But he never asked me out. I considered that maybe he doesn't want to go out with me because he might not want to chance a break-up, which could potentially destroy our friendship. I convinced myself that this was the logical answer, and maybe soon he would get the courage to pop the question. No such luck for me. Now yesterday, I asked the same friend that had initially said Luke liked me why he wouldn't go out with me because at this point I wanted either confirmation of my theory or just an answer. She replied that Luke has said he was looking for the right girl, and hadn't found her yet. I was so sure I was the right for girl for him because we get along wonderfully and I'd heard other things like, "He stares at you in class..." etc., which just kept me hoping. Now I'm a little heartbroken, though I know I shouldn't have got my hopes up in the first place. Any advice on how to get Luke back or get over him altogether?
Sincerely, flower [/size][/blockquote]
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Post by W.in.DY. on Mar 25, 2009 19:34:30 GMT -5
Dear ITM members/people who posted in this thread, As you may already know, my ambition is to become an admin of ITM. I have quite a few burning questions raging in my mind. Like: Why'd they pick Snakey? How do you become an admin? Stuff like that.
Do I give up this dream, or keep hoping?
WINDY.
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Post by flower on Mar 26, 2009 16:19:21 GMT -5
Dear Windy, I'm just going to give you my honest answer and opinion. This may not be anything you haven't heard before, though. I don't know why the admins picked Snakey to... join their ranks ^_^ I can't say I don't think they made the right decision though, because he is a good and active member and a great admin. Kudos Snakey, if you read this! If you want to know what qualified Snakey to become an admin that you haven't done, ask the admins, not me. And to become an admin.. as far as I know, you have to win the admins' favor and prove yourself good at RPing, and such things. Again, ask them because I'm not sure. It's good to have ambitions and high standards because they give you something to strive for. Maybe, improve the quality of your posts (which you have been doing VERY WELL, I must say!). And you may not think so, but I know how you feel, and every person on this planet at some point wants to be better than they are. Just don't get to mad at yourself and the admins, they try their hardest to be fair. And certainly keep hoping and striving to be better even than you think you can be! We all have to learn this important life lesson at some point. And I read your other post (please don't "keeel" me!) xD. I don't think that any site, material possession, friend, person, etc., is worth making you so knotted-up inside and so angry you cry. Let go of that anger! Learn to live and love life as it is, and be thankful you've improved as a writer so much! Does that help?
Sincerely, flower
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Post by W.in.DY. on Mar 26, 2009 16:26:22 GMT -5
I will not keeelll you. xD
Dear Flower, Thanks. Although that helped, I can't help but thinking back to a dream I had. On the old site, Snakeh had Aki Chan as a username. I had a dream that he was an Admin, still under the name, Aki Chan-- was I right? Oh yeah. -- Windy.
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